The Real Reason Why Dark Skinned Black Women Are Mean As Hell To Each Other

Women who do not love themselves can never love you. They cannot make good friends, because they are their own worst enemy.

This week I found myself reflecting on an incident between an older woman and I when I was a child. I was around 12 years old and she was in her early 20s. We attended the same church, and one afternoon we were gathered in a group with other church members when she began to make fun of me out of the blue. She started to taunt me and call me ugly.

I was …