Patience & Other Life Lessons I Learned From A Frustrating Wash Day

How many of us approach many aspects of our lives in the same way I approach my hair, in that we want more of something but we don’t take care of what we were given already?

“Bitch, how on earth do you expect to have longer hair when you can’t even take care of the hair you have on your head now?”

(Yes, I call myself a bitch sometimes. Tough love is self-care in my book)

This was the blunt conversation I had with myself in the shower a few days ago when I decided to finally take on the daunting task of detangling my almost-ma…