Internalized Chaos, And The Harsh Reality Of Those Peaceful Relationships Women Claim They Deserve

These peaceful relationships women want to be in usually result from us being conditioned to internalize any chaos that naturally arises in our relationships and allowing it to eat us alive.

During the holiday season last year I was on the phone with a friend. She asked me what I was doing for Christmas and I told her I was going to celebrate the holidays with my extended family, which o…