Healing From Victim Blaming Looks Like...

Just like I numbed myself I expected everyone else to follow suit so that we would never, ever get hurt again.

A few months ago I had a very enlightening conversation with my Lyft driver who sparked, or dare I say triggered, many deep truths about myself that I was not prepared to face.

One of those deep truths was actually a lie, in that I told myself I no longer cared to invite anyone else into my life through romance or friendship for the remainder of my days…